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"In some cultures, children are expected to follow very strict rules of behaviour. In other cultures, children are allowed to do almost anything they want. What are the merits of each opinion? What is your position on the matter? Include relevant examples in your response."
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The comparison between different styles of parental methods, namely Eastern & Western method has generated a lot of heated debate over which method is better. There is no doubt that parental methods are vital to the well-being for children. I believe that a strict parental method is better for both parents and children. Merits of both sides will be discussed first.
Firstly, children are expected to follow a set of strict rules especially in Eastern cultures which parents are more authoritarian. It is believed that a stricter set of rules can train children’s discipline, especially respect towards elder people in the society. A lot of research has also indicated that children who have harsher parents will also excel a lot better at school. They will learn to behave so they are less likely to cause when they grow into teenagers.
On the other hand, there are cultural norms which signify that children should be allowed to do as they wish and they should be allowed to develop their talent on their own. It is thought that children will learn to deal with difficulties so they are more independent when they become adults. Children who are raised under a more relaxed environment may cause trouble but they can learn from their mistakes.
In my opinion, I think that a stricter rules will allow children to mature better. Children need to know that they should learn before they are allowed to make their own decisions. Parents who operate a more restricted environment are also able to signal to their kids who is in charge. Obviously, parents can choose to relax the rules occasionally but the bottom line is that children should know that there is a framework to follow.
In conclusion, an environment in which children follow a set of scrupulous rules allows them to become a better person. To nurture them, it is important for them to get to know the framework to become mature adults.